Here it is, the only marriage advice for men that really works 100% of the time.
These are your lines;
- Yes dear.
- You’re right dear.
- Whatever you want dear.
- I was wrong.
- You’re right
- I did it.
- I’m sorry
It would be nice if it were so simple.
The fact is that men will NEVER understand women. The other fact is men find it hard to admit they’re wrong, even when they are. Still the OTHER fact is, men are just as guilty as their wives when it comes to not listening to what is being said, not paying attention and not following marital advice from proven experts.
One of the biggest issues I’ve learned from counseling married men is this; their wives sometimes don’t really know if their husband loves them or not.
Shocking?
Not really.
If you have been fighting with your wife, calling her names, putting tons of guilt on her shoulders and not paying attention to her in any way, what else do you expect her to think?
So, right now, before you finish reading this, go to your wife, or call her and say this; “honey, I love you and I always will. Please forgive me for being an a#$ (or whatever you need to say) and lets sit down and talk about our problems in a sensible manner”.
Do you have any idea how powerful this will be for your wife? You’ve taken responsibility and you are being the man she always wanted, just by performing this simple act.
Do it even if you think there is no chance in the world “she will come to her senses” and appreciate that you’re putting yourself out there. She will always be indebted to you for doing what she may not be able to do right now – asking for a breather, opening herself up to the possibility of sustained conversation that may end up keeping your marriage in tact.
After you do this, tell her that you love her, start showing it. You will be amazed at the changes that will begin to immediately take effect in your wife, and so will she.
Proven marriage advice for men…
Loving someone isn’t just saying the words. It’s the way you feel about your wife, how you treat her, the level of respect you have for her. It means understanding her, listening to her opinions and respecting them, and her ideas. Helping her with the mindless boring household tasks she faces every day. Putting her first in your priorities. Love means to her that you are working together through good times and bad.
If you really care, and really love your wife and don’t want to lose her, it’s time you man up and act like it.
Of course there is a lot more excellent marriage advice for men, but as a start in saving your marriage this a great beginning.
If your problems and issues are serious, and they must be or you wouldn’t be reading this, then you both need to learn to communicate with each other better and seek out experts in the field of marriage and follow their counseling.
Start now, tomorrow may be too late and remember this; you married her because you loved her and she was the only person in the world you wanted to be with forever. This is still true, you’re just to caught up in yourself to realize it.
She still is, you’ve just forgotten the “whys” and the intimacy of what you once had.
You CAN get it all back, and more, so much more than you may realize. All you need do is make the effort, take the chance and do the right thing.
If your wife wants to try marriage counseling for your marriage problems, by all means go with her and give it a try. If she wants to try something else do that as well. Your marriage is a big investment, don’t squander it!
Take this basic marriage advice for men, say you’re sorry and start from there…
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